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On Masculinity and the War on Poverty

Melanie Sturm | @ThinkAgainUSA Read Comments - 22
Publish Date: 
Wed, 01/15/2014

 

As a binge-TV watcher, I’ve relished devouring serial dramas in advertising-free gulps. But “Breaking Bad” -- the story about a cancer-stricken chemistry teacher turned clandestine meth-cooking badass – didn’t appeal.


Then Anthony Hopkins declared it an “epic work” with “the best actors I’ve ever seen.”

 

Midway through Season 2,  I understand why Walter White is heroic. As men increasingly check out of work, marriage, and fatherhood, it’s hard not to root for a man fiercely determined to secure his family’s future before dying – despite his morally abhorrent methods.  

 

That there are dramatically fewer men willing and able to safeguard family prosperity is perhaps America’s greatest – and unrecognized -- problem.

 

Consider Sunday’s “Shattering the Glass Ceiling” discussion on ABC’s “This Week.” Lamenting unrealized opportunities and unsolved problems when “women aren’t fully utilized,” businesswoman Carly Fiorina and co-panelists were oblivious that two times more men than women aged 25-34 languish in their parents’ basement far below the glass ceiling, according to US Census data, and that women now outperform men in nearly every measure of social, academic and vocational well-being.

 

Rather than apply Band-Aids to the cancer of male-underachievement -- like unemployment insurance extensions and minimum wage hikes -- political elites must Think Again. 

 

Focus on the real gender gap: millions of males, especially less-educated, are “unhitched from the engine of growth,” according to a recent Brookings Institution report.  Women gained all 74,000 jobs added to payrolls last month, and among the world’s seven biggest economies, America is now last in the share of “prime age” males working – just behind Italy. Why isn’t widespread male worklessness a priority for policymakers, given the massive economic, fiscal and social costs?

 

Fifty years after President Johnson declared the War on Poverty “to give our fellow citizens a fair chance to develop their own capacities,” we’ve spent an inflation-adjusted $20.7 trillion on 80-plus welfare programs -- $916 billion, or $9,000 per beneficiary, in 2012.

 

Yet 2013 ended with rates of government dependency and chronic joblessness near 50-year highs. Meanwhile, though inflation-adjusted GDP-per-capita has more than doubled since 1969, men’s average annual earnings dropped 28 percent, according to Brookings.

 

Since 1960, the percentage of married Americans plunged from 72 percent to 51 percent, while the rate of unwed motherhood skyrocketed from 4 percent to 41 percent, causing 24 million boys to be raised in fatherless homes – ominous trends considering children of single mothers experience less economic mobility.

 

As the New York Times explained, the ensuing vicious cycle means less successful men “are less attractive as partners, so some women are choosing to raise children by themselves, in turn often producing sons who are less successful and attractive as partners.”

 

Two recent books, both “cries-de-coeur” in support of men, chronicle the male achievement gap and propose remedies – “The War Against Boys,” by American Enterprise Institute scholar Christina Hoff Sommers, and “Men on Strike,” by psychologist Helen Smith.

 

Citing myriad studies, Sommers details how educational reforms and ideologies that deny gender differences have created hostile environments for rough-and-tumble boys, causing a serious academic achievement gap.

 

Out: structured, competitive, teacher-directed classrooms that best support boys’ learning; and outlets for natural rambunctiousness, including conflict-oriented play like cops and robbers. Last year, 7-year-old Coloradan Alex Smith was suspended for throwing an imaginary grenade at “bad guys.”


In: behavior-modifying drugs designed to make boys attentive and controlled.  

 

Distressingly, boy-enthralling, job-directed schools -- like Aviation High School in the Bronx, which specializes in teaching and graduating at-risk kids -- are under assault because females are under-represented. Sommers laments that “male-specific interventions” -- including masculine readings, single-sex learning opportunities, and teachers trained in boy-friendly pedagogy – “invites passionate and organized opposition” from feminist groups.

 

As young men disengage from school, alarming numbers are opting-out of post-secondary education, considered by Sommers the “passport to the American Dream.” Women disproportionately possess these passports, having earned post-secondary degrees in the following percentages: associate’s (62), bachelor’s (58), master’s (60), doctorates (52).

 

Expanding on Sommers’ argument, Smith taps into her counseling experience to explain that by opting-out of family life, risk-averse men are responding rationally to social institutions that offer fewer rewards and more costs.

 

The pendulum has swung too far, Smith argues, when male victims of statutory rape and paternity fraud are made liable for child support, or when collegiate men are assumed sexual predators before proven innocent (see the Duke Lacrosse case).

 

America’s young men aren’t “Breaking Bad” drug dealers, but they are suffering bad breaks in a society rife with misguided policies. The answer is not to “raise boys like we raise girls,” as Gloria Steinhem suggested, but to recognize that while the sexes are equal, they’re naturally different – and that’s beautiful.

 

Every human being arrives on earth with unique gifts, and our short life’s mission is to realize them. Shouldn’t society’s goal be to enable this process?

 

Think Again – isn’t closing the gender gap the true definition of feminism?

 

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Great article — I too went on

Great article —

I too went on a Breaking Bad Binge and was in love with Walter and had true empathy for him until it was revealed that he was just a nasty asshole who never felt rewarded in his career, and Jesse was just a talented young man who couldn’t get the love & support he needed from his parents but wasn’t bad, just didn’t know how to achieve what he was really good at. Like so many young men dropping out of high school - as you say, disengaged.

on the topic of male academic underachievement, I did a talk show on the anniversary of Title 9 some 11 years ago - asking high school leadership if single sex education was better for adolescents or not. One of my guests was a principal of the first single sex classroom only/co-ed school. Jefferson Leadership. The other represented a single sex girls school and a private high school that had once been two separate single sexed schools.
First, all the leadership in women’s rights who I interviewed said that title #9 was working. And of course now its been taken to the extreme so that when there aren’t enough women to be on the gymnastic team, they dissolve the boys gymnastic team?!!!

But more importantly, some 4 years after my show, I reached out to the principal of Jefferson Leadership. I was taking a magazine writing seminar and thought I could fit this story into an article. Hahahaha. TV is so easy Melanie. I asked her who she thought succeeded in this experiment of single sex/co-ed school? She said boys by a landslide. That their drop out rate was exponential but could be lowered, that this gave them a sense of value in the classroom. Ergo 60% women in college 40% men.

Ah Melanie, my 23 year old went skydiving — and people still ask me to this day about how I could “let” my son do it - "You let him do that? “ I got it for him for his birthday. They want me to treat him like a girl and be afraid when he skins his knee.

Your columns are feisty and wonderful so I’m thinking you’re doing good.

Melanie, great thoughts and I

Melanie, great thoughts and I agree. My 11-year old son has complained about his teacher forcing the boys to include girls in their recess football games, since it diminishes the QUALITY of play. Toby doesn’t care that they are girls; he’s upset because they’re not as skilled as the boys and hates that he’s being forced by the teacher to either include them or play a game where their natural skill levels are more balanced.

This topic is one of the “next big ideas,” in a sense.

I’m reading “QUIET: Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking.” Bottom Line? Round pegs in round holes; square pegs in square holes. And it’s OK!

The "trophy generation" is

The "trophy generation" is truly applicable. For our generation, particularly urban America, males grew up in VERY competitive environments from pick up sports games, gym classes which included wrestling, and organized sports. Every baseball field or basketball court was filled with boys competing. Every boy who could run tried out for football. Today, those fields and courts are empty. Wrestling is not permitted in gym class. There are no losers in kids sports. And Title 9 has killed thousands of opportunities for talented males to obtain a college education via athletics.

Reminds me of Ari Fleisher's op-ed in the WSJ earlier this week. It contained much of your same theme regarding single parents. He closes with the formula to elevate above poverty – graduate high school, marry, have children. In that order !

I certainly concur that men

I certainly concur that men are under valued and under represented by the media establishment, who still push the phony 'war on women' meme. One has to be deaf and blind not to see that women are represented everywhere and in every field. As individual parents and in our case grandparents, we have to encourage the similarities within both sexes and emphasize their differences. I am a lucky lady to have married a MAN, not just a physical image of one, and I am grateful to have had the responsibility of raising one or more in this life.

Great piece Melanie - thanks!

Great piece Melanie - thanks! Having a 13 yr old son ourselves and a 10 yr old daughter too, my wife and I see the vast differences in gender and how in many cases male differences are seen as a negative relative to girls, and even worse, the remedies often fall short.

A "male" will bend towards the sun like a tree!! We need to offer more sun - not clip the branches!
Hope your holidays were terrific. Thanks for the enjoyable reads....

Recently even feminist Camile

Recently even feminist Camile Paglia wrote about this topic.

We lived in England in the 90s, where they are farther along the progressive road to serfdom than we are. Young men’s unemployment was already an issue then. Remember all the stories about soccer violence? Guess what that’s all about.

And now even the Boy Scouts have folded. It’s a serious problem. Thanks for pointing it out.

This is an issue I've been

This is an issue I've been very concerned about since I began to realize how much our educational establishment has been captured not only by the left, but by a not simply "feminist" --but actively anti-male --contingent. It doesn't really start out as anti-boy, it's simply that when you start from a skewed dogma that holds that equality of the sexes means that there are no differences between them— it naturally follows that there is only one "best" educational environment for both boys and girls. Since a great majority of the education establishment are women, the "best environment" that is chosen — naturally-- is the one that works for girls. We are now seeing a dramatic underdevelopment of one of our most important resources— our boys and young men.

Just like the pre—feminist culture of the 1950's wasted enormous human potential by failing to recognize the strength of women, our current culture is set on a path to — ironically— do the same with our boys and men. We need clearly need full participation in our society by both men and women-- but a remarkably inflexible dogma is depriving our culture (again) of the skills and ability of half of our population. It's just that this time it is the male half. That is no more beneficial and no more excusable than the failure to recognize the potential of women in the pre-feminist time.

>>>Well, why should men care

>>>Well, why should men care about that when we keep getting told we are superfluous? Why should we bother, when women have become so good at safeguarding their own prosperity, with the help of the court system?<<<

Even if you do bother, who will you marry? Look at sitcoms how the husband/father is routinely the butt of all jokes and made to look like a doofus. The culture simply does not produce women who will respect and appreciate a man for doing what the author of this article claims to like about breaking bad: Which is manning up and taking care of his family.

Perhaps that is in part because so many women work today. Perhaps it’s partially due to feminism telling both sexes men and women are essentially the same. Whatever the cause, a man who provides for his family isn’t give the respect/status that his father and grandfather received. And that is not my opinion, that is Charles Murray’s opinion from his book Coming Apart.

So today men get less respect for their role as breadwinner. Assuming he even earns more than his wife. Add on the real possibility that any day your wife can decided without your consent that she is divorcing you, for any reason whatsoever, then you find the risk side of marriage has increased dramatically. I might not be the sharpest knife in the drawer, but less reward and more risk means fewer men will “man up” as the author laments.

Why should me care when

Why should me care when things are so stacked against them is a darn good answer!

The article mentions the school systems too. Mostly in the context of failing the males in their methodology. I would say that the current school systems and their methodologies fail ALL of their students, male or female. And the example are so numerous that it doesn’t even need to be pointed out. Anyone who has a child or grand-child knows this quite well.

Well, why should men care

Well, why should men care about that when we keep getting told we are superfluous? Why should we bother, when women have become so good at safeguarding their own prosperity, with the help of the court system?

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